I took my last final last night and school is over until January. That is one stress off of my plate.
These last few days have torn me up and it's really hard for me to get excited about Christmas this year. I'm not spending it with my family , along with all of the stress leading up to it just makes me want to sleep until it's over. I really hate feeling this way and tried so hard to get into the spirit. Also knowing that my relationship is on the rocks hurts. We texted a bit last night and I'm going to have the chance to talk to him tonight and I know things will get better. We both have a ton on our plate right now and have gotten thrown into this whirl-wind relationship pretty fast.
I don't know what's next in my life. I wanted 2009 to be an amazing year, and it was but it was also filled with a lot of tears. I'm kind of glad 2010 is right around the corner, a fresh start, time to breath and get ready for even more insanity that lies ahead.
I've decided to start back up on birth control again, as much as I hate to do it. It really levels my hormones out and I'm sick of being all over the place. This past month I've felt like I've been pmsing non-stop. I know guys don't understand it and it's hard to explain how you go from wanting to rip someones head off, to crying, to perfectly happy all in the span of 5 minutes. I also need to start getting over my trust issues, and I honestly don't know how I'm going to do that. I fear that he will leave me, I fear that everyone will leave me, which after both of your 'fathers' don't want anything to do with you it's pretty hard not to have that fear. All the experts say I need to forgive them so I can move on, but I'll never forgive them. I try to forget and pretend that everything is fine in my life but there will always be that hole.
::sigh::
you are free to join us down here if you want... i should've said that earlier if i had known you were feeling this way : ( we definitely need to catch up soon. i'll remind joe about a boston trip. and you know you're always free to come here. anything come of the letter you wrote to your birth father? i'm assuming not, after you mentioned him in this post...you're an awesome girl. you are absolutely right - matt (is that his name? sorry) would be totally stupid to throw you away for trash. also - couldn't agree more. men simply don't understand a thing about PMS. or female hormones in general. i wish they could. so dang hard! anyway - hang in there - you are an awesome, amazing woman.
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